Essay on Courtesy

Essay ~ ~ Courtesy

Definition:
The showing of politeness in one's attitude and behavior toward others.
            Courtesy means exellence of manners or polite behaviour. It, of course springs from good breeding and kindness of heart. A courteous man is pleasant and polite to everybody. He observes good manner on all occations and always respects the feelings of others.
            Moral norms and ethical values from the basis of the teachings of all religions of the world. It would be right to say that only by following these norms and values the foundations of modern civilization and culture were laid. These are the principles that distinguish man from animal. Man the crown of all the creatures of God, is endowd with moral sense that enabke him to establish amiable and pleasant relations with his fellowmen based on mutual respect. He has the capability to differebtiate betweeb good and evil. Courtesy,infact, is the practical expression of this capability.
            The encyclopedia Britannica defines it as respect for and consideration of others. It includes such virtues as generosity, co-operation, forgiveness, humility, honesty in dealing, thankfulness, unselfishness and faithfulness in agreements. These are the virtues that regulate our relations not only with our near and dear ones but also with our foes and friends making our life full of peace and pleasure. Without these virtues life is vicious and venemous. It is because of this that God has again and again enjoined upon us to be humble and courteous to others. In the Holy Quran He says,
           Our Holy Prophet(SAWW) was the best behaved of all people. He (SAW) always talked softly and politely and never indulged in loose talk. He used to say,
"The best of you are those who have the best character"
          Those who are impolite rude and imperious are despised by all. Nobody loves or respects them and thus they are left alone, helpless, and friendless. Life without the angelic feeling of love, respect, kindness and politeness is like a hell where the fire of contempt, rudeness, envy and cruelty burns our minds, bodies and souls. Let us be courteous to all. Let us love and resoect one another. Let our hearts be filled with the milk of human kindness, so that this earthly planet may one day become an earhly paradise.
In short, courtesy really makes everyday life more pleasant, more friendly and more meaningful.

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